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Thursday, August 1, 2019

It's All About Change - No If's, And's or Butt's About It

It's All About Change - But, But, But ... Get Off Your Butt About It!

Change means adapting, finding what doesn't work, what does work, and then applying something new to what doesn't -- maybe just to see what happens.

Change means getting out of your comfort zone, because it's a dead zone, like the dead zone of excuses.  And a dead zone is a dead life.

I recently discovered just how deadly my comfort zone had become -- it was running, and thus ruining, my life, and I didn't even know it.  The familiar had become a unhealthy, but known quantity that crept up on me.  It was a huge dichotomy -- comfort was creating a big pain in my butt, and I had gotten so used to it being there, that I just kept sitting on it unconsciously, complaining day-after-day -- a knee jerk reaction to life's unwieldy circumstances.

Pain can be a comfort zone, just like excuses, because it becomes familiar, like a bad friend who keeps calling to complain and out of habit you answer the phone, as much as you hate the interaction.

Let the pain in your life go, it's ultimately high maintenance.  Try something new or different, take a risk just of for the heck of it -- just to see what will happen -- don't take yourself too seriously.  Maybe you'll be surprised.  Maybe you'll get rejected.  Maybe you'll find love.  But whatever happens, it will be new and move you up out of your current morass, or maybe it will just move your dead ass!  Whatever the case, it will be good for you either way.  It will make life an adventure, and worth living once again.

Payoff?  Your butt will stop hurting!



Wednesday, July 31, 2019

Inspirational Quotes

This section is devoted to inspirational quotes I've written over the years.


  • "The threads of your life will come together to weave the quilt of your business and life. Positive threads will bring you joy, and the seemingly negative threads will bring life lessons necessary for later events, yet unforeseen. Each thread is necessary, as we are to one another, for creating the greater whole, for who you are and who you want to become."  (2005)
  •   "When you come from a place of perfect peace, you don't find flaws or faults or negativity, you only see that which needs to be transformed into something greater and the struggle to attain that. In a place of perfect peace, compassion replaces self-righteousness, and forgiveness replaces judgement, thereby planting the seeds for continual transformation from both within and without."  (2019)
  •   "The Wise person takes their key weakness and turns it into a strength." (2019)





Note: 
Spirituality is not religious, rather it draws on the many teachings of individuals who sought to improve humanity. It is a, "Take what you like, and leave the rest.", broad brush approach to encompassing a wide range of human experience. My role is neither to foist any one belief system on anyone or create converts. In my writings, I draw on many modalities.




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